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 Assalamualaikum korang.

Selamat Hari Raya! It's still Syawal...well, the balance of it. Maaf zahir & batin la ya..kalau ada. Kalau takde, alhamdulillah. Hehe. 

By the way, it's 3.09am right now. And I am still wide awake. What's new la kann.. this year sumpah timing tido lari teroks weh. Makin lama makin lambat. I'm like literally killing myself slowly (so I read somewhere). I sleep late yet I wake up early. On average I sleep lebih kurang only 4-5 hours je daily. Unless when I'm having a busy day or a draining energy kinda day, then yes, pukul 10pm sis dah tumbang. This is unhealthy I know that but tu laaa.... will try my best to fix it. How does one goes to bed at 9ish pm? ajar sat...

So...some updates. I'm no longer in my angry mode gais. Lols. I think it's probably I finally got rid of this one person from my circle. I am now somewhat calm. A bit. Dah tak marah-marah dah. Last time aku punya anger memang rasa nak tikam orang weh. Literally everyday, ada je benda yang nak dihanginkan. It just triggers you know. Now, alhamdulillah, no more. Smoga kekal menjauh la orang itu. 

During Ramadan, I did some extra thinking. Reflection. And I have concluded that I will be ending this year's first quater being in a zone that I have never tried. The quiet era zone. Realizing that a lot has changed with myself, my family, my friends, my relationship, my surroundings, my life. I tersedar yang I am in need of some quiet time. I just wanna mute everything. Sis penat u ols. Ikot hati...eh banyak benda la nak say it out loud. But then the saying goes ~ if you have nothing nice to say, it's best to say nothing at all. Just stay away. And staying away, I shall do. 

If you're thinking, "macam depression je budak nie"...trust me I am not. I'm a Gemini, hello. I'm just changing. I need the change. For me. 

Or my best bet, it's the pre-menapause. Damns. 


Til the next posts, take care everyone. Bye!

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